Does Being in a Relationship Make You More Attractive?

Are You Hotter Just Because You're Taken? The classic dating paradox: you spend months swiping, liking, and trying not to look too eager, only to suddenly become irresistible the moment you cuff up. Seriously, where were all these admirers when you were three margaritas deep, texting “wyd” at 2 a.m.?

The ‘Taken Effect’, Because Everyone Wants What They Can’t Have

Apparently, science backs this up. It’s called mate-choice copying, which basically means people assume you’re a high-value catch because someone else has already invested in you. If you’re in a relationship, you must have something going for you: stability, charisma, at least the ability to remember birthdays. 

Confidence: The Real Cheat Code

Another reason coupled-up folks seem hotter? They’re chilling. They’re not exuding that desperate “please love me” energy. When you’re single and searching, you might reek of needy vibes, but in a relationship? You’re cool, collected, and suddenly dripping in effortless charm. Turns out, confidence is the ultimate thirst trap.

Or Maybe People Just Leave You Alone?

Of course, not everyone’s buying into this theory. Some argue that if you’re actually loyal (gold star for you), you’re probably not putting out any “I’m available” signals. In fact, research suggests that the more committed you are, the less attractive you find other people, so you might not even notice if someone’s checking you out.

Relationship = Social Status Boost?

A hot partner can up your stock, sure. But if you’re only getting into a relationship to flex on your ex or level up your social clout, just know: major cringe.

The Real Attraction Factor: Being a Decent Human

Studies prove that people who are kind and helpful are rated way more attractive than those who aren’t. So, while being taken might add some mystery to your allure, the real magic is not being a garbage person.

So… Should You Fake a Relationship for Clout?

Look, some people do find you more attractive when you’re taken, but most just appreciate confidence and kindness. So instead of pretending to be boo’d up for the aesthetic, just work on being your best self. That’s what actually makes people want you. Or, you know, just adopt a puppy, it’s basically the same effect.